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Saturday, October 30, 2010

What do women really want?


Men like to believe that they have their woman where they want her. They tend to take their woman for granted once they have won her. They think that women are as uncomplicated as they are, and try and treat them the way they would like to be treated. This is when you have lost your woman.
Women have needs which are very different from men. You need to understand that first, and then keeping your woman happy will not be so difficult at all.
Women do not like to say everything. They want you to read between the lines and try and go a step further. If a man says he does not want something he means just that. Catch a woman say that, and she wants you to ask her just a few more times before she says yes reluctantly. She could kill to have it deep inside her.
Women want to talk. They can never get enough of it. Talk to your woman, and show her you really are interested in what she has to say. Women like to be heard, and want to know their opinion matters. No one wants to be just a trophy girlfriend or wife anymore. Give her that respect.
Women just never need space. They want to share every second, every inch of space with their man. They can never have enough of being held, caressed and pampered. Even if it is killing you, and you can not wait to turn the other way, spend a few minutes holding your girl till she drifts off to bed. You are sure to come away a winner.
Women love surprises. They want to see the unexpected. They love things being sprung on them. Go that extra mile and make the effort to do something special for your woman. She will feel wanted and loved. 
So, Buckle up, and brace yourself to take on woman in new ways. Show her you can be the man she is looking for, and she is yours for keeps.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

So Tired

It seems each day I wake up I try to think positive.... but it never fails that I am reminded of how things are not as I wish they were. I am SO tired of feeling depressed. I ignore the good things, advances, and even gestures from others because I am so wrapped up in my consuming past pains.  I used to be so strong, but now I can NOT stop the tears from flowing. It's amazing how I let myself get so attached to anything or anyone in my life when I know that at anytime anyone I love could leave or just not be around anymore. I thought that telling people how you truly feel and being honest are the only TRUE way to having a HAPPY full life, but to what purpose now ......... when I know that someday.. they would eventually choose to walk away. I am trying really hard not to become angry and  bitter. But I am tired of feeling like I am always the one being hurt. I am tired of crying alone and feeling sorry for myself. 

I know I deserve all the things my heart desires -----but how & when?
When and how do I get to be really happy?

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Eat, Pray, Love

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Eat, Pray, Love 
One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia. Written by Elizabeth Gilbert, the book is a memoir chronicling the soul-searching time she spent traveling in Rome, India and Bali after she realizes her life needs a new direction. Many women found her story inspiring, but some found it impractical. 
I just watched the movie last night and most likely, though you’re familiar with Liz’s story, so I don’t want to spend time writing a standard “movie review.” I found the movie very entertaining, a good example of how out-of-touch with reality some people can be. Liz ( played by Julia Roberts ) was able to leave her entire life behind, to get away after a difficult and painful divorce (which she initiated) to heal and get perspective on life. Basically it's a story about taking chances and following your heart. 

I read a lot of bad reviews about the book and the film as well. Honestly, I never understood exactly what drove her to leave her marriage but as stated she feels unfulfilled and was not happy anymore but that's life!, everyone at one time or another has been completely frustrated or disappointed with their life's direction, and felt the need for a change. 


Practically no one has the resources (be it time, money, or support) to just pack up and leave everything behind. I guess people nowadays especially women  has commitments, obligations and bills to pay. But I believe, Gilbert was not suggesting for a moment that we should all travel the globe in pursuit of happiness. She then understands that she was privileged to be able to do so. The idea is that we all might want to consider a little more depth in our lives and a whole lot more mindfulness.


The part that I loved most was in India, when she met the most wonderful character that I especially loved Richard from Texas, a bit crass but down to earth man. He is so fully in tune with himself and has accepted who he is so completely, he makes every moment feel authentic. He kind of makes you want to see a movie about his character instead. I just admire him so much. And he makes me laugh too. He taught LIZ how to forgive herself from all the mistakes she did especially the failed marriage she had and that is exactly the message of this film/book. To forgive. Forgive yourself and do it now! then let it go. She finally was able to come to terms with herself and to let go of the worry and the pain that had consumed her. I also admire her for being a flawed but honest person.


Mistakes happen, but that’s it. They happen, and you move on. You learn from it. But you can’t get back to who you really are unless you accept what happened and forgive yourself – at that point, you can get back to being comfortable and even happy with who you are. And it’s when that happens that your inner beauty shines through, you see and speak through your heart, and you won’t have to change a thing about yourself in order to love and be loved.

This book/film does inspire you to reach beyond yourself in order to see the better, more complete you.



Thursday, October 21, 2010

Go GAGA with HANDBAGS!!!

The It-Bag (as they call it)  is the ultimate 21st- century object of desire, not just for supermodels and celebutantes, but for working women from all walks of life.  These days women are more prepared to spend on a handbag particularly ones with BIG fancy brand names like Chanel, Coach, Louis Vuitton, Gucci, Prada and Hermes. They shop for fashion bags as frequently as they eat, worry about the delay of the new arrivals and so on. 





But why do we find bags so desirable? It's partly because they've become a unique outward statement of a woman's status, fashion savvy and earning power - and the rising popularity of handbags over the past 100 years has followed the increasing social independence of their owners.

Based on an Article in U.K. Two hundred years ago, a woman's role was largely domestic and she would keep her belongings in a purse tucked into the folds of her clothes.

But as women started leaving the home, both for leisure and work, bags became a useful way of carrying their possessions.

These days most women's bag contains survival kit for daily life in the urban jungle - from mobile phone, tampons, make-up, money and keys, to hair straighteners, laptops, Blackberries, chewing gum, condoms or a change of clothes.

As a result, its mystique remains intact: many men find the complexities of what women carry in a handbag thrillingly obscure and would never dare to invade its privacy.

Most women would feel naked without their handbags. And, as clothes become ever more streamlined and minimalist, it is in your choice of bag that you can make sure you stand out from the crowd.

But with so many designer bags vying for our attention, what does it take to lift a handbag to authentic 'It' status?

The most obvious attribute is a striking design. An It-Bag needs to be instantly recognizable. Another vital element for an It-Bag, of course, is glamour. Often this comes from the magical association between a brand and a celebrity - such as the famous Hermes Kelly bag. 

Kate Moss's official Spring 2010 Ads

Clever marketing inevitably also plays a vital role in creating a must-have. While Kate Moss  ( who modeled Longchamp Paris ) may always be able to get her hands on the latest luxury bag, for the woman in the street it's much more of a challenge, regardless of money.

Women's natural competitiveness is, of course, cleverly managed by the top bag designers.



Recently, longchamp le pliage bags began to receive recognition and praise due to their line of leather covered pipes.  The gorgeous bags were a hit and were the catalyst for Longchamp’s growth through all of Asia and most of the world today. Longchamp’s most popular line is the Le Pliage collection. There are several reasons for its popularity among both teenagers and adults. Also, the price point is very reasonable considering the craftsmanship and allure of the Longchamp brand. It’s great to be able to own a quality bag that is both beautiful and practical. 



Well, I just got my new LONGCHAMP's seasonal edition for 2010 Coup de Pinceau, (not the Le Pliage collection) but definitely you'll love it's simple yet elegant style. This bag is made of a lightweight durable printed canvas, perfect for daily outingsLongchamp bags really do have such tremendous ideas when it comes to designs. 

LONGCHAMP Coup de Pinceau Striped Canvas Tote


I am now thinking what to buy next...  :)








Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-486265/Bags-class--women-love-handbags-much.html#ixzz12yPvgNnT
  



Wednesday, October 20, 2010

What is Loneliness?

In its most severe form, loneliness can drive a person to real panic and even to insanity or suicide. In its milder form. loneliness can be felt as nothing more than the vague feeling of being unloved and unwanted, the feeling of not belonging. 

Loneliness, in spite of the terrible feelings that comes with it, is still a gift from God. At worst, it is the price we human beings pay for our capacity to think, to reflect, to be aware of our own uniqueness and limitations. At best, loneliness is the other side of our capacity to give and receive love.

Whenever i feel lonely, I try not to ask why anymore, for I know it is part of my being human. I ask, instead, what I may have done to make myself feel isolated, walled-in and alienated from the others. In fact, loneliness comes during those moments of isolation, when around me I have built an invisible wall , perhaps after i have been hurt by others . The same wall protects me from getting hurt again, but, unfortunately, it also imprisons me.

It is said by some that loneliness is a part of our being human because, they say, we are relational by nature. which means that each of us is not  meant to remain an "I" forever, it urges us to find the "you" reach out, and, together form a "We". Loneliness disappears as soon as we find a "We-ness" with others.

When you let the negative emotion of loneliness go, it will undoubtedly free up your hidden motivations to go out and meet new people.
I think loneliness is a terrible thing to go through, but a necessary thing at times because you can really learn a lot about yourself and come out a stronger person.

Remember:  "you are never truly alone except in your mind."

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Boost Your Dating Confidence


It’s hard to be confident when you’ve been rejected a few times in the dating scene. Or perhaps you’ve never been a confident person to begin with. So how do you go about boosting your dating confidence so you can find the mate of your dreams? 


Confidence is what tells others you’re in command, you have a love of life and you’re worthy of being loved by someone equally as special. However, if you’re not confident, you may find yourself attracting the wrong people or even worse, attracting no one. Below are some tips to help you boost your confidence and become better at dating! 


Believe In Yourself 
If you don’t believe you’re an attractive, desirable person then how can someone else believe? You need to take steps to believe in yourself and your abilities in order for your confidence to shine through. Maybe you need to pamper yourself a little extra with a haircut and some new clothes. Or perhaps you need to feel more worthy by taking a course that will help you further your education—nothing says confidence like someone who’s happy with their job and feeling smart. 


Get Positive Support 
If you find that your friends are negative and down about dating and life in general, maybe you need to look for a few new friends. Nothing is more beneficial than having a positive support team to help you learn to be confident. A positive group of friends can help you learn what your best traits are and how you can represent yourself better. Plus, if you need to do something proactive toward building your dating confidence like losing a little weight or learning how to dress more successfully, there’s nothing like a good friend to help you. 


Be Busy 
If you have a full, interesting life that makes you happy, you will ooze with confidence! Take time to sign up for a class on a hobby or interest you’ve always wanted to pursue. Maybe you want to learn to ski, or play a sport, or learn to speak a different language. New experiences keep you busy but the best part is that they put you into a different dating pool. Compatible people enjoy doing the same things, so why not look for confidence and love at an art class or whilst learning to scuba dive? 


Practice Dating 
Like any activity, dating takes practice to be good at it. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and learn how to talk to the opposite sex. Consider trying something new, like online dating, or speed dating to get some practice. Of course there’s rejection, but just remember that not everyone is compatible with each other, and your feelings will remain intact. On the positive side, you could end up dating two or three people at once. Dating confidence is easier to find when you’re popular, so get on with the practicing and watch your confidence levels soar. 


In Conclusion 
You need confidence in order to present yourself as a sexy individual ready for love and a relationship. Without it, you may find yourself alone or dating the wrong people. However, by practicing dating, working on your self esteem and expanding your interests you too can learn to be a confident, sexy person ready for dating!


Read more: 
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Friday, October 15, 2010

Is The Lack Of Confidence Keeping You Single?

There are many singles who engage in negative self-talk, allowing their minds to go through all the things that could go wrong even before going on a date. If you are one of those people, it's time to replace your fears with self-assured confidence that will win the heart of the person you like.

Here are 5 tips to help you to boost your confidence on any date:


1. Nobody's perfect

If you want your date to respond positively to you, you must also show a positive side of you. To achieve that, accept that nobody's perfect and your date probably has the same insecurities as you.

2. Never put your date on a pedestal as that will lower your self-esteem even more

If your date accepts you for who you are, then that is something to build upon, if not, tell yourself that there's always someone else who has shared beliefs and values with you and it's up to you to discover that person.

3. Do the things that make you feel good

If you think you don't have a talent or strength, then engage in certain activities that might help you discover that strength. It could be enrolling with the gym or taking up a course that can help improve a specific area of your life. Eventually, you'll find yourself drawing more confidence from the things you do and this confidence will grow on you everyday.

4. Stop beating yourself up

If you've had a string of failed relationships in the past, it doesn't mean you're lousy! Perhaps you weren't prepared and or it wasn't the right time for others to make a commitment to you. It's natural to feel sad when things don't work out, but your past does not equate your future! Take the lessons from the past, make a plan about the things you wish to improve you didn't do back then and take action to carry out that plan.

5. Take pride in your achievements

What are some of the things you think you've done well each day? Could be it sticking to your exercise routine or accomplishing an important project in your office? No matter how small your achievements are, take pride in them and celebrate by making a fist, pulling it towards yourself and saying a victorious "YES!"



Read more: http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Is-The-Lack-Of-Confidence-Keeping-You-Single-/1653244#ixzz12PLMdXHD

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

What Causes Stress?

Stress can be defined as the automatic, physiological response to any physical or emotional situation that mobilizes the body for quick action. Stress is when we feel a large weight on our shoulders, pressured, worried, nervous and agitated. Stress is a part of our everyday lives and there isn't a person in the world who can run from it. Stress may arise from a one-time event or involve a chronic, long-term response. 
What causes stress we ask? Many of us may reply by saying: "What doesn't cause stress?" In the day-to-day hustle and bustle of life, many of us encounter stress to the point of being overwhelmed and exhausted by it.
The causes and effects of stress can vary by individual. What may be a stressor for me, may not be a stressor for you. It is important that we all become aware of our own "stress limits," and do what we can to keep stress at a minimum.
Some people are more flexible in handling stress and seem to take things in stride, while others may become overwhelmed by the slightest change in their daily routine. One thing that is certain, is that when stress is unmanaged it can have a detrimental affect upon our health, AND our emotional well-being.
Stress can be caused by a number of things, such as: financial difficulties, physical changes in our bodies such as pregnancy or disease, or any life changing event that you or I, may or may not have control over.
A number of situations and scenarios can cause stress in our lives.

When doses of stress are small, it can help us rise to the occasion of meeting challenges. But beyond a certain point, stress can cause disruptions in our relationships, mood and in the quality of our life. It is a known fact, that chronic stress can cause a rise in blood pressure, heart rate and may weaken the immune system. Other detriments to our health from stress may include: depression, sleep problems, digestion problems, and the possibility of having a heart attack.
Although rarely considered, stress can be categorized as internal and/or external.
Internal stressors are sparked by what we feel internally, such as (a) poor self image, negative self-talk, and clashes in our faith, and belief systems.
External stressors, on the other hand - are things that happen in our environment, that we may or may not have control over. Career changes, divorce, the loss of a loved one; injury or illness, can all be classified as an "external stressor."
There are many ways in which we can counteract stress in our lives, and increase our resilience. Some of these ways include:
- Remaining positive, in spite of bad times
- Allowing yourself to become focused on worthwhile things
- And first and foremost, "BEING FLEXIBLE!"
It is important to recognize when our levels of stress are out of control, and reaching a level that could be considered as "an overload of stress." But being able to identify our stressors and adjusting our attitude and reaction to stress, is one of the most beneficial ways of reducing its effect upon our life.

I AM ME

I found this passage in the Internet and I think it’s really beautiful. It is an affirmation that we could all use, especially at times when we need to boost our self esteem a bit. It reminds us that we are special. And no matter what problems we encounter in life, as long as we love ourselves, we can survive. 

“I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it — I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes.
Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know — but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me.
However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me.
I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me. I am me, and I am Okay.”

Monday, October 11, 2010

Fix Depression - Keep Positive

Negative thinking habits play a very important role in depression. Research shows depressed people tend to minimize their accomplishments, talents, and qualities. Happy people experience failure, disappointment, rejection, negative emotions, pain, and great sorrows, too, just like depressed people. But happy people keep a positive attitude by gracefully accepting sadness and suffering as normal parts of life, while doing what they can about their problems. This also makes them more pleasant to be around and improves their social lives. Part of happiness is a courageous choice of loving life in the face of suffering, a chosen position or view of things.

Do Simple Task and Earn

In this earning method you must register on a site and then you will be given certain tasks to complete as soon you finish your task you will get paid, the task are of different kinds some of them are, Completing surveys, writing articles etc.
You may also choose whether to accept or not the tasks given. But, be careful when accepting jobs, you have to make sure that you follow the instructions to avoid being rated "not satisfied" having this status will decrease your success rate and you will be banned for awhile. Look for a job that fits your capacity and be careful and understand the instructions given. 
The most paying and legit site is Microworkers.com 


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Saturday, October 9, 2010

Get Paid to Post

There are a few legitimate paid to post social sites out there. But with so many people being scammed every day, it's hard to know which sites to trust.



Mylot.com is a genuine site that does pay its users for posting on the site. All you have to do is start a discussion based on the interests you have selected. The more interests that you select, the more you can discuss and so the more money you could make. There is a "start new discussion" tab to click, so it's fairly easy to navigate. The interest section is a bit tedious, you have to look through the whole selection, and so if you did select a lot of interests, you will have to wade through them all to find the one you are looking for.


Some of your selected interests do appear at the top of the screen, so you can either choose from them or look for others.


Friends

You can add friends on Mylot.com and the more friends you add, the more money you could make. The way it works is; you respond to their discussions, they respond to yours (not all users extend the same courtesy, but most of them do). You can be notified via email when your friends start discussions, simply by clicking the "notify is off" tab. Once your friendship request has been accepted, you can send private messages to your friends.



Starting discussions.

The more people that respond to your discussions, the more money you will make. Try to make them general and interesting.
Rules.

Mylot.com are quite strict about their rules, they have a section where you can read through the various rules. If any of these are broken, you could be punished, repeat offenders have their earnings deducted (without warning) or they are banned altogether.
Money.

There is some kind of complex algorithm that Mylot.com won't divulge. You don't earn a huge amount, but the more you post, the more you make. You can make anything; from 2 cents to a dollar fifty. The money you have earned is displayed at the top of the screen  (earnings are updated once a day) The amount is in U.S dollars and cents, so if you live in a different country, you will need to figure out what that is in your currency. Don't worry about converting it when it comes to payday, paypal has an automatic currency converter. Payday is the 15th of every month, as long as you have earned enough to qualify for payout. You must have enough to qualify by the last day of the previous month or you will have to wait until next time.

When you first reach payment, you are automatically set to receive payment on payday when you reach the amount of $10, you can change this for the next payment to $25, $50, or $100. When you have earned that amount, you get that exactly, if you have earned any more than that, it is rolled over for next month. For example; if you earned $27.95, you get paid $25, and you will have $2.95 in your balance.

It is most definitely not a get rich quick scheme, but it is a way to earn some extra money and have a good time too. You might meet some nice people on there, have fun!





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Get Paid To Click



Nowadays there are thousands of ways of earning money online through different methods, but today I am going to define a complete tutorial of how an individual can earn money simply by sitting at home.
The different ways of earning money are, 'Pay to Click', 'Pay To Post', 'Work And Earn', 'Upload And Earn', 'Blog Earning' etc.
For beginners: This is the most legit Paid To Click Website.
http://www.neobux.com/?r=tayciram0501
As you have seen the name of this kind of earning is Paid To Click in which you have to simply open advertisements of certain paying websites, the procedure of earning on these type of sights is that you must register on paid to click site and then got surf ads/view advertisement panel then surf some ads for few seconds (minimum 30 secs) then money will be credited to your account. You can withdraw your money through Paypal or Alertpay as soon as you account balance reaches $2.00 which is minimum limit to transfer.You can also earn with the help of referrals, when ever they click on ads you will also get commission.
The best site and the most legit PTC is Neobux.  :)

Friday, October 8, 2010

Signs of an Unhealthy Relationships

We all hope that when we get in a relationship that it will be a healthy one. Unfortunately, for many, this isn't the case. You may find yourself questioning whether you are in a healthy relationship at some point. Just because your relationship runs across hard times doesn't mean that the relationship is unhealthy. Every relationship will run into trouble at times. However, there are some relationships that shouldn't exist because they are unhealthy and, in some cases, deadly.


There are certain things that you should be able to expect in a relationships at all times. If you can't expect them, you are in an unhealthy relationship. If you have problems in your relationship and you can't talk about those problems, you are in an unhealthy relationship. If you can't expect the other person to make the right choices, you are in an unhealthy relationship. If you can't trust you partner, you are in an unhealthy relationship.


There are certain things that you should be able to expect in a relationships at all times. If you can't expect them, you are in an unhealthy relationship. If you have problems in your relationship and you can't talk about those problems, you are in an unhealthy relationship. If you can't expect the other person to make the right choices, you are in an unhealthy relationship. If you can't trust you partner, you are in an unhealthy relationship.


Unhealthy relationships begin when one person doesn't respect the other person. This could be an abuser who never respects the person he/she is with. It could be a cheater that can't stay true to his word. It could be a number of different scenarios. The thing to keep in mind is that if the other person is disrespecting you in any manner, you are not in a healthy relationship.



It takes two to make the relationship work. If you are in an unhealthy relationship, you will find that you are fighting all the time or not talking at all. Both situations are hard to deal with. Finding yourself in an unhealthy relationship causes stress that is unnecessary and it may be time to call it quits. It doesn't just affect you, it affects anyone else living in the home including children. It also affects other family members and friends who are watching the disease of an unhealthy relationship spread. It is like cancer. Cancer in the relationship is no better than cancer in the body. It sits waiting to attack and it can be deadly in some circumstances.


If you find that you are in an unhealthy relationship, you have two choices. You can seek help to work the relationship out or you can call it quits. Staying in an unhealthy relationship isn't a good answer and it will never end well. Get help or get out. Everyone deserves to be in a healthy relationship where both parties are willing to help each other grow in their lives. If you find that you aren't there, it is time to move on to another situation that allows you to grow the way that you were meant to grow.